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A fresh start to the new year: how Nannies and Family Assistants bring structure to the new year

Written by Naomi Plijnaar, Founder TFA

A fresh start to the new year: how Nannies and Family Assistants bring structure to the new year

After a period full of festivities, presents and irregular routines, it is often a challenge to get children back into a rhythm. As a Nanny, you play an important role in rebuilding structure, so that children and parents can begin the new year smoothly and in an organised way. Here are some detailed tips to reintroduce routines and make a fresh start.

1. Create a predictable daily schedule

Children thrive on predictability. Create a daily schedule with clear moments for meals, sleep, play and learning. Discuss the schedule with the parents first to make sure it meets their expectations and the needs of the children. Make it visually appealing by using pictograms or colours, so that younger children can also see what is going to happen. Hang the schedule somewhere visible, such as the kitchen or playroom, so that it is accessible to everyone.

2. Build routines gradually

After a festive period with irregular bedtimes and lots of activities, it is important to reintroduce routines gradually. Start with small adjustments, such as moving bedtime by 15 minutes a day or introducing a fixed time for breakfast and dinner. This gradual approach prevents children from feeling overwhelmed and gives them time to get used to a structured rhythm again.

3. Make time for reflection and goals

The new year is a lovely opportunity to look back on the past year together with the children. Ask them what they enjoyed most and what new things they would like to learn or do in the coming year. Whether it is arts and crafts, playing outdoors or trying a new sport, setting small goals motivates children and gives them something to look forward to. You could even make a “goals poster” and decorate it together to make the process fun and interactive.

4. Combine structure with flexibility

Although clear structure is important, flexibility remains essential too. Leave room for spontaneous activities, such as a walk, a treasure hunt or a creative afternoon. This keeps the day from feeling too rigid and gives children the chance to relax and recharge. Balance is key: a good mix of predictability and fun makes routines more effective and more enjoyable.

5. Communicate with the parents

A successful restart calls for good communication with the parents. Discuss with them how you, as a Nanny, can help bring structure back into daily life. Ask about specific wishes or points of attention and share your observations about what works well for the children. By working together, you can make sure the transition into the new year runs smoothly for the whole family.

6. Focus on giving praise

A new start is a wonderful opportunity to encourage positive habits. Praise children when they cooperate well with routines, such as coming to the table on time or tidying away their toys themselves. This strengthens their confidence and motivates them to repeat the behaviour. You could, for example, make a reward chart on which they earn stickers for every day they follow their routines.

With this thorough approach, you as a Nanny can lay a stable foundation for an organised, relaxed and successful new year. You not only help the children feel safe and secure, but also give the whole family the calm and balance they need to start the new year full of energy.